Tuesday, April 16, 2024

年前

 但,《年会不能停》的主创团队又让我抱有一丝期待,此前作品口碑不俗的董润年,擅长讲小人物成长和喜剧故事的大鹏,不同路数的喜剧明星白客、王迅、童漠男、“肉食动物”组合等,更有息影多年的欧阳奋强、“叔圈”实力派李乃文加盟,让人不禁好奇,“各路神仙”能擦出怎样的火花?加之,这部电影聚焦职场,宣发期间的视频片段已经让我这个“打工人”生出共鸣,想一探究竟。  
电影讲述了标准件厂钳工胡建林在集团裁员之际阴差阳错被调入集团总部后的故事。这一路上,胡建林与环境格格不入,弄出百般笑话的同时,也折射出一系列引人深思的职场怪象。最终,错调一事背后的复杂真相浮出水面,胡建林与同事马杰、潘妮揭露高管黑幕、反抗不公职场文化的战役也打响了……   
将近120分钟的观影过程,我久违地酣畅淋漓地笑了一场,也无数次由衷地为那些击中“打工人”内心的精准表达拍手叫绝:“对齐一下颗粒度”“问题的关键就是找到关键问题”,包裹在高端行话里的形式主义,有之;看似扁平化管理实则唯上媚上的虚伪,有之;让外包员工干苦活却迟迟不给转正的“画饼”承诺,有之;原本踏实正直,但为了保住工作不得不睁一只眼闭一只眼、顺应

Sunday, October 04, 2015

我的家乡一麻坡 (一)


麻坡是位于柔佛州的一个城市。我的老家其实是比较接近麻坡市郊一个叫巴冬的小镇。说起巴冬,最令人津津乐道的应该是其海鲜吧。这里的鱼产特别新鲜,海鲜餐馆总不乏外地人慕名光顾。巴冬著名的美食有亚参鱼,乌达,烧鱼等。
我老家就离巴冬小镇仅一公里馀一个叫巴力港光的小乡村。这村应该只有二十来户人家。村里大部分是巫裔,华裔大概也只有五、六户人家吧。
我家就建在大路旁,屋子离大路只有二十来公尺而已。在南北大道通车之前,屋前的大路是联邦大道通往新山及新加坡必经之路。十多年前这条路的繁忙程度可想而知。到了今时今日,它还是麻坡南下巴株巴辖最佳取道方式。
老家比我还老好几岁,但几个兄弟中偏我不在那出世。理由很简单,爸妈在我出世前刚好搬出去附近的巴力丁雅经营了一间咖啡店做起小本生意来。出世那天恰好是年除夕,我赶在这喜洋洋的节庆呱呱落地。家人也因为忙于迎新年而把报生纸的申请给耽擱到年初六,而我的出生日期竟也糊裡糊塗地被报迟了六天!这事也迟至我上初中时从母亲口中得悉。
我从童年有记忆开始,老家就是父母现在还住着的那一间四十多年祖屋。不知为何,对巴力丁雅那出生地反而没絲毫印象。听说爸妈那间咖啡店做了没多久便顶了给别人。好像那时候开始爸妈便搬回祖屋与祖母,大伯还有三姑妈几家人一起住。
大伯一家人在我年纪很小时便搬离祖屋,到一公里外的巴冬镇上住。虽然如此,记忆中和大伯的五个子女还常有往来。我的两个表哥(姑妈的孩子)就比我们年长许多,所以印象中没有和他们太熟絡。姑妈一家人是在我小学三西年级才搬到马六甲住的。就这样,我们一家人就和祖母同住在祖屋。它就是我们的根,我们三兄弟和爸妈的大部分回忆都在此。
谈起祖母,她在上世纪初在中国出世。和许多华人祖辈一样,祖母是很小便随父母移居南洋。对于外曾祖父母怎样辗转来到麻坡落脚,我所知不多。我比较常听说的是,外曾祖父母来马后,经多年刻苦奋斗也小有成绩。外曾祖父母在麻坡及柔佛一些郊区有上百亩的农地。在那个年代,土地相对便宜,但能有远见地以有限的财富累计无限潜能的土地,外曾祖父显然做得非常出色。题外话,在寸土寸金的今天,如果祖母的弟弟还守着那些地,现在必衣食无忧。但可惜他在继承后,却也陆续卖掉不少地皮。
祖母应该是十多二十岁时嫁给了祖父,婚后育有四男四女。我大伯父早夭,不知是不是禁忌使然,我们从小便把二伯父称为大伯父,排行老三的父亲就变成了老二。 爸是在日治时代出生,经历了逃难,恐慌的年代。或许还小,那些片段在爸记忆中仿佛很模糊。爸比较常提起的,反而是七零年代的Rukun Tetangga时的轮流守夜经验。那Rukun Tetangga 应该是513暴乱之后的产物吧。


Sunday, November 23, 2014

永远的小虎队

认识小虎队应是从‘蝴蝶飞呀’这首歌开始。那是80年代末,至今已是25年前的往事了。‘蝴蝶飞呀’的歌词是这样的:

 ( 苏有朋)海风在我耳边倾诉着老船长的梦想 
 ( 陈志朋)白云越过那山岗努力在寻找它的家 
( 吴奇隆)小雨敲醒梦中的睡荷绽开微笑的脸庞
(合)我把青春做个风筝往天上爬
 (苏有朋)贝壳爬上沙滩看一看世界有多么大 
 (陈志朋)毛毛虫期待着明天有一双美丽的翅膀 
(吴奇隆)小河躺在森林的怀抱唱着春天写的歌 
 (合)我把岁月慢慢编织一幅画 梦是蝴蝶的翅膀 年轻是飞翔的天堂 
放开风筝的长线把爱画在岁月的脸上 心是成长的力量就像那蝴蝶的翅膀
迎着风声越大歌声越高亢  蝴蝶飞呀就像童年在风里跑 感觉年少的彩虹比海更远比天还要高 蝴蝶飞呀飞向未来的城堡 打开梦想的天窗让那成长更快更美好  
(苏有朋)贝壳爬上沙滩看一看世界有多么大
 (陈志朋)毛毛虫期待着明天有一双美丽的翅膀
 (吴奇隆)小河躺在森林的怀抱唱着春天写的歌 
 (合)我把岁月慢慢编织一幅画 梦是蝴蝶的翅膀年轻是飞翔的天堂 
放开风筝的长线把爱画在岁月的脸上 心是成长的力量就像那蝴蝶的翅膀 
迎着风声越大歌声越高亢 蝴蝶飞呀就像童年在风里跑 感觉年少的彩虹比海更远比天还要高
蝴蝶飞呀飞向未来的城堡 打开梦想的天窗让那成长更快更美好 蝴蝶飞呀就像童年在风里跑
感觉年少的彩虹比海更远比天还要高 蝴蝶飞呀飞向未来的城堡 
打开梦想的天窗让那成长更快更美好 蝴蝶飞呀飞向未来的城堡
打开梦想的天窗让那成长更快更美好 
蝴蝶飞 蝴蝶飞 蝴蝶飞



是的,小虎队是一组台湾男子组合,成员有苏有朋、吴奇隆和陈志朋三人。它曾是台湾流行歌坛 最走红的演唱组合,曾创下了 演唱会20多场场场爆满的纪录。 蝴蝶飞呀的歌词朗朗上口,旋律轻快。歌词大意是描述成长的蜕变,以及青春的美好。在当时的青少年圈里,这样的歌曲是非常受落的。
小虎队因为成员要分别上学、服兵役等原因于1995年宣布解散。我还记得当初一个友人还因此而伤心了一阵子。
进入新世纪一直有传闻再复合重现当年的辉煌成就,但是由于他们已经分属不同的公司难以成行。在2010年央视春晚的舞台上,三人重新联袂演唱他们的三首经典歌曲《 爱》、《 蝴蝶飞呀》和《 青苹果乐园》。
如今,三人也各有成就。吴奇隆由台湾转往大陸影剧界发展,好像成绩还不错。2000年之后,苏有朋更多的精力是放到电视剧之中。目前有参演电影及电视剧,也还偶有出专辑。陈志朋曾出演过多部戏剧作品,而于1997年在《还珠格格》中饰演的尔泰、电视剧《名扬花鼓》里扮演的名祖儿最被大众所熟知。
他们不愧是一个年代青春偶像的代表人物。




Friday, May 30, 2014

Beginning a Life in Perth

It has been more than 4 months since we last landed in Perth, Australia. We are pretty much settled with most of the essential things in place and life has now moving from been chaotic into a more "routine" mode. Nothing has come easy for us as we were basically started off everything from scratch, with no relatives and friends here to begin with.  We were very fortunate as we made a few friends here through other friends and relatives in Malaysia and there were two Malaysian couples in particular who had rendered a lot of advice, and tips in helping us to start up here.  They have shared their experience in various aspects ranging from where to buy oriental food, which are the good area to live, to tips in securing a rented property, etc.
A) Temporary Accommodation
To get into the swing of an entirely new life down under, accommodation has certainly become the first priority among all other stuff.  I booked a room in a family home for 8 days to begin with, hoping to get a rented house within two weeks of us setting our feet here. Booking and payment was done through airbnb, which I only got to know much later from the locals that it is a very popular portal for people to rent rooms in a non-conventional way (as it is not hotel room, but a room in a house).
The rate was definitely much cheaper than hotel but still it was a whopping $60 a day for just a room. The positive side of renting a room in this manner was that we have got to live in the desired suburb for us to experience the life before we finally decided on the desired suburb for renting a house for longer term.  To cut a long story short, we rented a room in Leeming, which is only 4 km from Wen Jia's school.

B) Renting a home
Renting a house has not been an easy task here. Due to the influx of migrants and the high demands in suburbs with proximity to good schools, getting a rented home is indeed very challenging.  Imagine we had to compete with so many other home seekers out there to the extend of there are more demands than supplies. Unlike those in Malaysia, house viewing here has to be done at the timeframe stipulated by the property agent and it is usually done only when there are sufficient viewers committed to turn up. The timeframe was usually a short 15 minutes and home viewers were expected to put in an offer based on the limited knowledge they had on the house from the 15 minutes viewing.  It is so competitive that at times there was more than 10 viewers turned up for a single viewing.
We were required to submit an application for rental within 24 hours from the viewing.  There were so much details to be filled in, such as financial details, details of all family members intended to live in the house, details of previous rented property, "why did you leave the previous rented house?", contact details of 2 reference in Perth, etc.  It was a tedious process as we needed to submit a full stack of documents to support our application, let alone the lack of local financial information amid we were new here.
The hassles aside, we ultimately got a 3 bed room, 1 bath room house at a suburb called Parkwood. Though the house is a bit small and the rental is expensive, it nevertheless was a good beginning for us.

C) Schooling
Wen Jia goes to Oberthur Primary School which is situated at a suburb called Bullcreek, some 6km from our rented house in Parkwood. We secured a place for Wen Jia back in October when the school contacted us via email that they accepted Wen Jia's enrollment, much to our relief as the school actually took in students out of its local intake area. This means that we could live outside of the catchment area of the school for at least until Wen Jia reaches her age for Senior High School. The Senior High Schools here on the other hand do not usually take students outside of their catchment areas.
Oberthur Primary School is a medium size school with just over 400 students from Pre-primary to Year 7. Australian Curriculum is somehow different from Malaysia's. One prominent difference is that she does not carry heavy school bag as most of the learning materials are not text book based. She has a workbook that she brings home everyday and that usually contains sheets of exercise or homework. It is learning in a fun way and more well balanced as subjects such as music, swimming, and gymnastic are introduced at various stages in the term besides the conventional language, maths, and science subjects.
Overall, Wen Jia enjoys her schooling here.



More to come.....




Saturday, October 05, 2013

电子年代

这是一个电子年代,沟通高度简化的年代。
这是一个电子年代,人们恨不得一秒钟可以再分细的年代。
这是一个电子年代,停下脚步寒暄几句彷彿变得可有可无的年代。
这是一个电子年代,纸和笔已近尘封的年代。
这是一个电子年代,依妹儿代替了書信的年代。
这是一个电子年代,你和我不再认识彼此字迹的年代。
这是一个电子年代,post 不再是投寄长方形信封入信筒的年代。
这是一个电子年代,post 的不再是信,而是FB状态的年代。
这是一个电子年代,纸和笔已近尘封的年代。
这是一个电子年代,邮票已变成回忆的年代。

- 写于10月9日World Post Day 前夕。


Saturday, August 31, 2013

国庆快乐

祝马来西亚56周年国庆快乐,国泰民安。
每一年的这一个时刻,爱不爱国这课题总会被高官们热炒一番。对我来说,爱不爱国并不是挂个国旗,国庆月在影院听到国歌时肃不肃立那么的片面。 扪心自问,若某人每年国庆都在屋外或车顶挂国旗,但骨子里却是个种族极端主义者,开口闭口排斥某族群,要他们不爽的话滚回中国或印度,  这算是爱国吗?
试想,若高官们口口声声将爱国挂嘴边,却尽做些刮取民脂民膏的勾当,盗取公款占为己有,那是爱国吗?
五十六年了,我们是否还停留在谁才是“土地的儿女”的区分中?“同化”与否,团结与否,难不成容不下母语教育的百花齐放?政客们的各取所需,季节性地翻炒几个固定的种族、教育课题,是爱国的表现仰或顺应民间”诉求“,大家应该心里有数。不要太认真,在我们这国家,举凡衣食住行,统统都可以和政治扯上边。
少一点 政治,多一点同理心,回归根本,那是我的国庆愿望。

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

痛快

什么是痛快?痛快可以是高兴 ;畅快,也可指爽快;直截了当。我身边有不少榴莲迷,他们让我深深体会到怎么样才算是痛痛快快地吃榴莲。 每次出去享用”榴莲宴“, 都是一个人十粒八粒往肚里呑。 真怀疑他们怎么食量能大得如此惊人。 但朋友总爱说,要吃嘛, 就该痛痛快快地吃。 吃那么两三粒哪来个痛快? 家里年终弃旧迎新,大概也得学学怎么个痛快地把旧物”牺牲“掉。旧的不去,新的不来。再说旧物会约堆约多,再多几年恐怕房子会显得小了,再也装不下一堆堆的”杂物“了。因此,大扫除弃旧迎新时真的得痛快些,要不然东西累积下来就会是种累赘。随着年纪渐长,在饮食方面其实还蛮难再像以往般痛快地吃。之前能尽兴吃旁螃蟹或其他海鲜类,现在还是节制点比较好。现在换另一种想法:只要保持好心情,不一定是吃多才算痛快。慢慢品尝,细细回味,也未尝不是人间乐事。