Showing posts with label 亲子. Show all posts
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Sunday, June 16, 2013

單車

單車

作詞:黃偉文
作曲:柳重言

不要不要假設我知道
一切一切也都是為我而做
為何這麼偉大 如此感覺不到
不說一句的愛有多好?
只有一次記得實在接觸到...
騎著單車的我倆 懷緊貼背的擁抱

難離難捨想抱緊些 茫茫人生好像荒野
如孩兒能伏於爸爸的肩膊 誰要下車
難離難捨總有一些 常情如此不可推卸
任世間再冷酷 想起這單車還有幸福可借
經已給我怎會看不到
雖說演你角色實在有難度
從來虛位以待 何不給個擁抱?
想我怎去相信這一套
多疼惜我卻不便讓我知道
懷念單車給你我 唯一有過的擁抱

難離難捨想抱緊些 茫茫人生好像荒野
如孩兒能伏於爸爸的肩膊
哪怕遙遙長路多斜
你愛我愛多些 讓我他朝走得堅壯些
你介意來愛護 又靠誰施捨

難離難捨想抱緊些 茫茫人生好像荒野
如孩兒能伏於爸爸的肩膊 誰要下車
難離難捨總有一些 常情如此不可推卸
任世間怨我壞 可知我只得你承受我的狂或野
陈奕迅这首单车是好几年前听过的,是屬于耐听型的歌。听说香港名写词人黄伟文当年写这首歌主要是在歌颂父爱但声讨意味极强烈。自小因父亲对他的爱从不宣之口,孩子幼小的心灵揣摩心理的能力有限。爱他但不肯说出口,就有理由相信父亲是不爱他的。
           故事的背景是wyman 小四那年爸爸骑着单车带他去海滩,两仔爷才有人生的第一次拥抱,唯一一个令彼此都不难为情的拥抱机会。 “如孩兒能伏於爸爸的肩膊 誰要下車”, 那是一个多么难得把头靠在爸爸
肩膊的机会。
爱,或许真要勇于表达,对孩子的爱固然是,对父亲的爱的表达或反馈也得趁早。 
愿 天下父亲们:父亲节快乐!




Monday, February 06, 2012

Fun with Beads




I bought a new game for Jia during my trip to Bandung recently.  It is a set of beads with pegboards and templates.  
It was bought with the intention to keep Jia occupied throughout her trip in Bandung as Bandung does not have many fun activities for kids.  At the end, I find it to be an interesting and useful toy for her as it helps to improve motor skill as well as giving the sense of achievement when she got the shapes done by filling in bead by bead onto the pegboard.
Here's what it looks like inside the box.  It consists of a few packs of beads with different colors, a few templates, and two pegboards. 












This is how it looks like after it is harden by ironing under mild heat for around two minutes.  This is the fun part that excites Jia a lot as she gets to hold and feel the end result which is the harden beads that are joined together.  The harden beads can then be used as decoration by sticking onto wall, or just bringing it around.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

A fruitful year for Wen Jia



This year marks the 3rd year since Wen Jia was born. She has been doing wonderfully in terms of physical and intelligence growth.
Physically she is a healthy, tall girl with improved physical strength - a natural process of growth.  Like most of the grown up kids, she doesn't like to eat vege.  We often mixed meat or fish with finely cut vege so that she could  get a better combination of nutrients as much as possible.
She likes most types of food especially oranges, and grapes.  Her taste on fruits has changed a lot. Her old time favourites such as banana, papaya, and apple have now become part of the list of food that she will avoid.  Well, I forgot to mention that she likes pineapple - the one cooked together with pork rib, or even in pineapple fried rice. 
In terms of learning and games, she has started to pick up interest in puzzle. We started with some simple puzzles (the 12 pieces one) and slowly moved to 18 pieces and 24 pieces.  She still need some guidance when come to the more complex one but overall it was a good start.  My friend in Singapore was right, always start with some character that she likes the most and she will slowly build interest in whichever games associate to those characters.  In Wen Jia's case, she likes the Mickey & Minnie, and also the Disney Princess puzzles the most.
On flash card learning, it has been reduced significantly. I have started to show more on the computer than the hand-made ones.  Also, she has started to explore more online learning such as the ones in sesame street, Nick Jr, etc.  The important part is, I selected the games for her to suit her age and development. 
She started rhythmic gymnastics (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhythmic_gymnastics) class early this year.  Possibly due to her yong age, the results have not been significant. Anyway, as our objective wasn't for her to be a gymnast or the sort, it is fine for her to play and have fun in the class once a week. 
She joined a mandarin word card lesson under a "Teacher Yap's" program.  It has been very good that she managed to pick up 20 over charcters over a period of 1 month but she has lost interest in the class soon after her 3rd month.  Our observation (having personally sit in the centre to wait for Wen Jia to finish her class) was that the teaching quality has deteriorated so much so until her actual time spent in the lesson was merely 20 minutes out of 1.5 hours in the centre.  We stopped the lesson for a while and would decide in next year if she should continue. 
I started Hooked on Phonics program with her since early this year after been introduced to this material by a friend in Singapore.  She has just completed Pre-K Level 1.  A bit slow but I think it was partly my fault for not been able to spend more time more frequently with her on the lesson.  Overall it was a fun program to follow, and I took it as an oppotunity to foster bonding with my girl.
Wen Jia will be in Pre-Kindy when the school opens next year.  Seriously we will have to observe more on her progress and most importantly to understand more about what is going on in the kindergarten.  It is really not about how good she can cope with her homework but it is very much on how well she enjoys a new learning milestone.

Friday, January 22, 2010

小妮子爱说话

嘉已快步入两岁半了。近来在语言技巧方面很明显地提升了很多。
小妮子什么都会拿来问。见到剪草工人就问”what doing?" 意即 “what is he doing?"。看到报纸上足球员跌地的痛苦表情,劈口就问 ”what happened uncle?"。 女儿开始掌握简单句子了。
到这年龄,她对性别年龄也有了基本认识了。电视或书刊上男女老幼的图片画面她都能一一辨别 auntie, uncle, "kor kor", "jie jie", 妹妹, 弟弟 之分。
想在的嘉嘉,活像个”问题女生“。”十万个为什么“ 那种。任何时候任何事都会问一通。她的口头禅似乎变成了 ”what? why? 等等。
我知道这是她学习的另一里程碑。开始在提问中获得新的知识及技巧。现在要做的是认真聆听,有问必答。

Sunday, November 08, 2009

Puzzles




2 years old being a new milestone for Wen Jia. She has started showing interest in things that she didn't ever bother to take a second look on. One such example is her interest in puzzles.
I bought a simple set of puzzles with a maximum of 8 building blocks each. Each with farm and pet animals such as dog, cat, duck, cow that Jia Jia is exposed to from various sources such as educational VCD, story books, and flash cards.
She showed interest after a few rounds of playing. Most importantly, either Siew Wei or myself has to accompany her in solving the puzzles. We were by her side to show encouragement as well as praise her when necessary for her "achievement". With that, she built her interest in these puzzles and has since volunteering to play them every now and then.
It is crucial to start with simple puzzles so not to discourage the kids. Even adults find it hard sometimes to solve moderate to difficult puzzles so why burdening our children to do the same!
I am happy with what Jia has achieved and will continue to add into her collection some new puzzles in future.

Saturday, October 03, 2009

2009 年的中秋节

今年算是女儿第二年庆中秋。2007 年中秋,小妮子还没满月,不算有庆祝过。
今年和她表兄姐妹们一起,大伙的父母们搞了个“potluck", 聚餐兼让小孩们提灯笼过中秋。小妮子因年纪小,好像还很怕灯笼。可能是第一次触摸时不小心灼伤了小指,有了恐惧感的她全程都不敢提灯笼。我只有握着她的手帮她提灯笼绕着公园走了一圈。
她毕竟还小,对公园的设施如滑板及千鞦兴趣远过于灯笼。其实,这一个活动是为了让她往后的记忆里有这么一个节日。
现在庆中秋的感觉少了很多。小学甚至于中学时的自制灯笼和月光会那种场面及激情只成了回忆。但期望下一代还是有他们对中秋的一份憧憬。自然而然这任务就在我们这班父母身上了。所以,庆祝形式还是其次,是那一热诚与精神才是关键。
中秋快乐。

Saturday, July 18, 2009

第一首歌

最近雯嘉开始哼哼学唱歌了。第一首学会哼的歌竟是我在她还在妈妈肚里常为她哼的“自己跌倒自己爬“。
他也爱其他如“妈妈好“ 的歌,但学起来竟没有“自己跌倒自己爬“ 般得心应手。
我不得不认为那是所谓的“胎教”的功效。
记得雯嘉刚出世的头几天,爱哭闹得很。我也常用这首歌来哄她。总觉得这首歌特别能安抚她,听了一会儿哭闹也缓和下来。我想这该是因为在胎里常听这首歌的缘故吧。
小孩的吸收能力是惊人的,我不得不相这一点。唱歌也好,学说话也好,小瓜总会为我带来惊喜。她似乎不需要刻意去灌输,其实分分钟都在学习。所以父母们,千万要留意你们的举止及言行。你的一举一动,都有可能影响着子女将来的人格朔造。

Saturday, July 04, 2009

宝

想妳,是生活的一部分。
念妳,是不须质疑的。
疼你,但不须溺爱妳。
好多次,因妳的倔强而气妳恼妳。
但那也只是瞬间的反应。
再怎么坏怎么皮,
妳还是爸妈心中的宝。

Saturday, June 13, 2009

爸爸的生日

六月二日是父亲七十岁生日。
当天为他老人家办了个小聚餐。刚好爸妈都来了吉隆坡,我便在家附近的酒楼订了座。 其实也只是家常便菜, 主要还是咱几口子能一起好好吃一顿。
还有,蛋糕当然少不了。特地定了巧克力香蕉蛋糕,因为爸和女儿都喜欢吃香蕉。
人生七十古来稀,那是爸爸的福。也祝愿爸爸安康快乐,逍遥无忧。

Saturday, June 06, 2009

Wen Jia Learning Alphabet Now


I started showing Wen Jia flash card of Alphabet A-Z three weeks ago and she has managed to picked up a few alphabets since the first week.
She was able to tail with the name of objects when I uttered the Alphabet, for example A for (she will say Apple), B for (Ball ball), etc.
This set of flash cards was among her favourite flash cards now and she is now able to master at least 10 out of the 26 alphabets now. She is making quite a good progress now.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Morib day trip 30/1

I have done my first posting into youtube for a video clip that was taken using my new JVC camcorder.
Well, that was taken during our family trip to Morib on the 30th Jan - 5th day of CNY.
Talking about the trip, that was our fist time to the coastal of Selangor covering Klang-Banting-Morib-Tg Sepat-Bagan Lalang.
Well, the beach wasn't that great but that was kind of a family outing experience which was great after all.

Thursday, May 01, 2008

五月了

时间过得好快,转眼已是五月了。 零八年也快过一半了。
零八年是不同的一年,自己的人生也经历了变化。家里多了各女儿后,每天放工第一件事便是回家陪女儿。 女儿确实为我们小两口带来了蛮大的变化。 看她一天天长大,我们就越想多把握点时间陪她 ,深怕错过了她生命中某一段旅程似的。
有了女儿,自己对父母多年来的养育,似乎多了一层感恩。爸妈想必经历了不少艰幸,才把我养育成人。我得更加孝顺父母,以报答他们。
五月了,双亲节又到了。我在此祝天下父母:身体安康,快快乐乐!